It’s very easy to think that adult sex is just any kind of adult activity. As long as both partners are consenting, then you have adult sex. If that’s your definition of adult sex, you’re leaving a lot on the table. In fact, you’re being completely clueless regarding a tremendous amount of variables that come into play.

You have to understand that finding a sex date online is not just about age. It’s also about maturity and people who are looking for the same things as you. The problem with most guys who are looking for adult sex is that they tackle it the same way as traditionalists do. Traditional singles go to singles bars and dance clubs to find this type of sex. I’m telling you right now, that’s playing the game the wrong way. If this is how you look for this type of sex then you’re playing the game to lose. That’s the bottom line.

You have to look at it from the perspective of the internet. The internet has completely blown wide open the doors of anonymous sex. Focus instead on fetishes. Focus instead on particular sexual interests. Focus instead on creating all sorts of circumstances and opportunities, and you’d be surprised as to how easy it is to engage in this type of activity.

Now that the availability issue is clear and we’re on the same page, here comes the more difficult part. Just because you have a clear idea regarding the fetish you’re interested in doesn’t automatically mean you’ll start drowning in the kind of exotic sex action you’ve always dreamed of. I wish it was that easy and automatic. Nope. You need to start working on your game plan. Getting laid in certain fetish niches is different from getting laid by your typical college girl. Make sure you adjust your game.